Originally Posted by camarda

if i can feel myself getting close where it un-warrented, i control suppress & move on.

ahh ok, i see. kind of like, if you are on a rollercoster, and you feel the fear inside, you stop the rollercoaster and jump off and run away. effectively, not controlling the fear at all.

and if i get in a relationship, i expect the person to not cheat on me, as everyone in the world bar u does, otherwise i wouldnt get into it.

i don't think i have ever said to what you are replying to. my point was, and still is, if you expect the human population to end a relationship in what you deem 'the correct relationship ending process', you are deluded, and ultimately all efforts in trying to achieve this universal procedure, are futile.

the label you have given me of being 'relationship pesimistic' isn't required. also your final point is not applicable (read statement above as to why).