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Originally Posted by intern
I've always been quieter and more subtle, I quite liked being like this, and I'm finding it hard to break out of this pattern without coming across as someone who's trying too hard. When you're at a party or a pub and you meet girls, do any of you find it hard to break into dominance, especially when friends/acquaintances there may be naturally more alpha than you. It's really effecting my confidence with girls to the point where whenever I meet them, even when I'm alone, I just think 'they'll meet my friend/someone else and realise I'm not at all alpha and get bored with me'.
Thoughts?
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Having to "be Alpha" to get girls is a bit of myth imo
I listen to a lot of Russell Brand's stand up routines when I'm driving and he really plays on the fact that he is a Beta male.
Also busts the "alphas" balls something chronic too mind
example
"MASCULINE! FUCKING! MEN! Every movement emanates from the COCK!"
"SOMETHIN IN ERE IS GETTING FUCKIN PREGANT!"
By pointing out both the ridiculousness of his and their behaviours he exposes the shallowness at the heart of it all
Scampo