K's post reminds me of the four Four stages of competence.

Before reading the game I was unconsciously incompetent at approaching, flirting closing with women.

After reading it I became consciously incompetent. I'm still at that stage but working towards becoming consciously competent.

I know people who are unconscious competent at being social and attracting women, K's right it doesn't matter how they got there it’s the fact they arrived.

I know if I can get to being unconscious competent with being social as I've already done this in other areas of my life such as work and even learning to drive a car. I just need to take things at my own pace. I also want to get out and meet some more board members soon.

Mark