nat·u·ral/ˈnaCHərəl/
Noun: A person regarded as having an innate gift or talent for a particular task or activity.

How do we achieve this?

It's all well and good telling people to be natural and in my view a lot better than the alternatives. However, the biggest question I'm asked and ask myself is, 'How is natural going to help? I've been doing that all my life and isn't working!'

As a man who is striving towards this I have found the two biggest factors that help are:

1) Lifestyle - Develop a lifestyle that you enjoy and our positive about. You will then be a positive person who girls enjoy being around. You are natural and being yourself.

2) Trial and Error - just keep going! Just chat to girls. Find out what works for you and what doesn't. After time things that used to a problem will come naturally as you go through unconscious incompetence to unconscious competence.

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