Wow. You don't pull any punches, do you fella!

I guess its a fair point though, and certainly a possibility that you are right. However, I don't think that it is the case somehow, and I'm not just in denial.

She did say to me last week that she's having a really tough time at work at the moment and really stressed out - she said she feels like she needs to concentrate all her efforts on finding a new job atm. To which I offered to give her some space, seeing as she had suddenly gone a bit cold with me, and I took her words to mean that didn't have time for me. She immediately said she didn't want that.

Again, I know i'm sort of answering my own questions here, but I do feel like i need to talk about it and get some people's thoughts on the situation: maybe someone has been in a similar situation themselves?