I tried that at tonight's group dinner. We sat beside each other as usual and I busted her on two things (intentionally ultra sexist ok sarcastic way) leading up the aim of busting her on what k said above. I made it clear that it was a ridiculous idea. She said that she doesn't want to be tied down, no she doesnt think all blokes are evil, its not like that, she wants to just have her holiday.

Over group dinner yesterday, I froze her out several times for five to fifteen mins at a time, by talking to others inc ransom pub guy who wanted to chat. i also called her a few put down negative jokey names.

At group dinner yesterday, we've done small amount of covert kino, held eye contact and laughed loads together. I dropped in a non-judgmental frame around enjoying yourself on holiday, new experiences,.... new people,... its wonderful on holiday to seize the chance to try new things. But she refuses to dance with me (on an empty dancefloor where noone ever danced that night) in front of the tour group. I said just dancing, doesn't mean anything except two ppl having a good time together. She was loving the song, taping feet, wouldnt dance.

Closing: her off to her room, as we are in massive group back from restaurant returning to hotel, and no subtlety would be poss if she was to go to my room in diff part of hotel rather than hers - or vice versa - as group hangs around seeing it all. I don't give a shit, but she does.. about the tour group. Secondly she is not wanting to fuck me anyway anymore it seems else she'd make it easier for me. But I can't use my direct sexual talk as by surrounding herself with tour group at closing time, I can't isolate and escalate anymore. Fuck it. But annoying nonetheless.