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Originally Posted by Midas touch
There is this rule in PUA to leave them better than you found them. How does anyone manage to do that? It seems like utter shit. If your game is any good then obviously the girl is going to fall in love with you and be hurt when you move on. |
It's a quandary man. You're exactly right that if you get someone to seriously emotionally invest in you and then it all ends then there's bound to be a feeling of resentment.
I've unfortunately been there myself and found that the only way to allow you both to move on is total separation. With my LTR's that went southward in the past we simply had to get out of each others lives for a while. No texting, deletion from facebook, everything; until we were over the pain, which has taken as long as a couple of years, at which point we can reconnect (if we want to) without the bitterness.
Remember that time heals all wounds...