Random question shooting from the hip here.

You say you cannot just have a normal conversation, you just basically take the piss constantly.
Can you have a normal conversation with your male friends?
- if so-- whats the difference? - you dont see girls as people just things?

If you cannot have a normal conversation with male friends
- Do you feel like you ahve nothing going on in your life of interest/value so you take the easy road and just take the piss?