Zix,

having an awareness of ur own self worth is not enough, maybe it is for Kowalski (who (self admittedly) for him it is normal to be a chatter box etc..). but thats just specific to him, for his personality and where he is at.

u may be totally different to him and not be where he is at and so just knowing ur worthy wont be enough.

if ur shit with girls in social interactions u need to get to grips with more than just knowing ur own value...any one whos been in pua for any amount of time knows this. trust me u aint pullin if all u got is a good understanding of ur worth, u need more than that..

knowing ur own self worth does not mean u can build rapport/trust/confidence/kino escalation and all that (useful) shit. dont get me wrong tho knowing ur self worth is essential (for all the reasosns set out in the previous posts) its just not wear the buck stops.

dude some girls can just be hard work, self worth on its own will not magically transform u into the guy shes been looking for.

1 route is to learn about social interactions with girls then go into them work out what principles/behaviours work and what doesnt (neg/push/pull/kino/enthusiasm). u will then develop good reference experiences. u will then be able to work out which usage of principles/behaviours are natural and normal for u. in time maybe all u will need is just an awareness of ur worth but right now it seems like u need to know more than just that.

another route is to just know ur self worth and hope u learn how to be successful with girls via osmosis from accidentally working out what works over a lengthy period of time, within which u may just give up through lack of results, which will also lead to u devaluing ur self worth.

ur choice