I do not agree with K on this one.

IMO, I think that the guy needs to spend some time with her to build that connection and attraction. If he makes it obvious what he is after then it could frighten his prey away.

By luring the chick in he has the opportunity to control her emotions right into the bedroom. by taking her onto an emotional roller coaster she will WANT to f -close and he will be in driving seat.

If the attraction is not yet there then ending this by no making a "date" or seeing her again, kills a potential opportunity.

What do others think of this?