never take advice from girls on 'what works with girls'. They dont get a clear picture of reality (biased by being girls). They want romance, mr Darsy from pride and predjudice, free drinks etc but what they NEED is a strong survivor who is going to lead them and protect them in return for sex. It has also become reasonably clear to me that this is what they respond to and that romance is formed from the emotions they will develop when they see a strong male likes them.