Mystery came up with a good one.

Stoke her up with some txt/chat flirting (mucho importanto) and then tell her what you're doing i.e going town to buy some sports gear or whatever (calibrate to her) and ask if she wants to come along. If she's stoked, it's fun and interesting just to be with you.

Yes? Aw yeah girl, do your thing together and take her some place after.

No? S'aight, you're doing something anyways.

Just means you're not left holding the invite if she's making excuses.

Game On.