I appreciate all the replies guys, I certainly wont stop going out because of her, and I think I'll take the route of just ignoring her and not showing her I care whilst being alright with her fella, I'm beginning to see now that shes not worth it and to be honest the only reason its took me so long to get over her is that I always worry that I wont find someone else, but at the end of the day I'm only 21, still plenty of time, I just need to chill out and get out and sarge it up a bit