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Originally Posted by camarda
in his own eyes, he will have a view of his own value. this will indicate whether or not he will find the interaction easy or not. and also it co-incides with what he feels the other persons value is. the other person is doing the same. so we have 4 mind made entities operating in a communication.
it is always easier if the other person views you as a person with value. and it is always helpful if you view yourself as a person with value.
you arent going to get a guy who thinks he has no value, pulling a girl who knows she has high value, and knows that you have no value.
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This is exactly the issue. How do you teach a person to value themselves? There is a danger of taking it too far here as well. Some people get addicted to their own imaginary high value and become, for want of a better word, dicks.