He does approach girls, it's just so pathetically doomed to failiure. Example: hello ladies, may I just say you have amazing legs. I'm sure some of you could pull this off; he can't. I'm thinking he needs to fix his inner game first. I don't think you can effectively include women in your life unless you're content without them. I know what works for me in that case, but that is working to my strengths, and he needs to work to his.