I was reading this, and I thought it didn't sound like a good thing myself. However you cannot universally apply every rule to every girl, she may have other stuff going on.

Generally speaking db is right no kclose on the first night and I would next the girl, however I know of a PUA who never kisses a girl on the first date and he is an absolute legend, maybe the difference is that he never tries to kiss them on the first date, which dials up the tension.

LJBF is a worry for you here mate, instead of nexting (if that what you intend to do) why not reverse roles and LJBF her?

What is there to lose?