Your over analysing everything. Really, don't think about "going in for the kiss" just be a bit touchy feely with her and I don't mean groping her arse or anything just little touches on the shoulder arm and waist as your walking or in mid conversation.

As for all that stuff about popcorn, I mean get a grip please, stand up for what you like and don't like.

Also stop competing in your mind with her ex's, I mean really STOP THAT SHIT NOW - shes with you and not them thats all that matters.

Her parting comment about the "blond" issue is saying that she wants you to tease her a little. Text her now and say "hey, we should go out again soon, but lets make it next week - that will give you time to dye your hair blond :-)".