I get all that shit that you where thinking in the cinema like... its the most awkward thing ever if you put your arm around someone and then have to move it if its not comfortable haha...

should have maybe just played back with her about rejecting the guys kiss and maybe twisted that into why she should kiss you, or why she wouldn't able to turn you down? I dunno I always go for the sort of bold/cocky comments...

to be honest if you ain't dated in a good while and she was really fit you can't expect to do too well. if anything I really think you need to sort firstly the way you sound like your putting her up on a pedestal and maybe should have called her on how sure about herself she was... and secondly don't sit around talking about ex's for too long... they can be good conversation for a short while but you don't wanna end up being the guy who she can talk to about things if you know what I mean.

just my thoughts

db x