lol cheers phil, yea but my problem is wen i make indirect approaches its sometimes hard for me to come off as being genuine and they can tell that i have a secret agenda or something.. and even if i was to say got a quick opinion or watver they can just have the same bitchy reaction like " why are u asking us!"

just would liket to be able to think faster on my feet uno same goes wen im with my mates and they're slagging me lol have to resort to kicking the shit out of them, cant do that with the girls tho..