Have you not noticed though how girls do this a hell of a lot. For example, me and a guy i work with were chatting to a couple of girls at work the other night, and the one I was chatting to said "Why can't you be as good looking as your mate?" I can take a shit test or two no problem, but this really got to me and I completely lost my state. I could tell she felt bad after saying it, and I felt like saying the same thing to her, but i didn't bite and managed to turn myself around after a min or two. Could you imagine saying this to a girl, oooo it would not go down well at all, the situation would blow up really fast.