Can I just say summat. The whole thing about neg's being immoral and super manipulative is always blown way out of proportion on here for some reason. I agree somewhat that to purposely make a girl feel conscious about herself/looks so that she feels she has to validate herself to you so you can gety laid, is a bit distasteful, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with taking the piss out of people for a laugh, whether it be a woman or a man. Women to it all the time, so why is it so morally incorrect for us to do it. People take the piss out of each other, and some times it can be pretty harsh, but it's just a part of our culture. We have a dry sense of humour in this part of the world, and this comes across all the time, even when your flurting.
Kowalski, its ok telling us that negging is bad but teasing when flirting is ok, but to be honest it's hard to decide where to draw the line. When you're flirting with a girl, whether you like it or not, you are trying to get her into the sack, at some point in the not too distant future. Therefore anything you say to her could be considered as being manipulative in one way or another. That's the whole point in the chase. Women know what you want to do to them, unless you're gay of course, it's just a matter of showing them your interest and influencing them into being attracted to you through words and body language etc, is it not?