ok just an example, but if i try an opinion opener and get told where to go by one girl, i normally say something like "its ok, i was more interested in your friends opinion anyway". if you dont say it in a nasty way, just as a sort of fact, its a quality neg. you can normally back it up with a reason, like if it was a fasion opinion i was after id say "its ok, i was after her opinion really she looks like the stylish one of the group" secretly, all girls love to be told they are better than thier mates they r all in competition with each other