I totally disagree. 99% of the population believe they are what they are. And they never work hard at improving themselves to the best that they can be. And what do they achieve? Fuck all.

Look at the hugely successful people and see what they say. They have worked day after day, week after week, year after year. And it often takes years before they even get a glimmer of success.

All I ask from you is this:
Just devote one year of your life to becoming a social success. Even if you continue to thinks you can't learn a new world of confidence and silky smooth interactions. Just 365 little days of hard graft. Then turn around and compare yourself to how you were the year before. You only need go out on weekends. You can spend week nights learning from books/video. You will not regret it.