Hey guys,

Wanted some opinions on getting back with ex girfriends who brush you off and how to play it, and if anyone has ever managed to do it successfully - if so how? Or even if its worth trying and just moving on to a new girl?

Background:

Met a real tasty girl a few mths back, started seeing her, had sex etc and she started telling me she was really into me etc. TBH honest I was into her also. Anyways one night she just ended it out of the blue, saying it didn't feel right. I then started calling/texting her etc like a true gimp (cold replys from her).... so have given up the chase as its clear she has moved on. Yes I know I had one-itis, scarcity mentality etc but when you like a girl not always easy to be clear headed...

I analysed my game and realised the one part of my game I really need to work on is building comfort/connection. I must confess to getting lazy effort-wise once Ive boned a bird a few times. We started getting into a boring routine of watching dvds and other non-interactive stuff. So this could have been a cause. Was a bit down about it but want to try and learn from it.

I'm actually in contact with other girls now and am ok with the fact its over (I know it might not sound like it!) but the experience made me wonder if anyone else had an experience with an ex-gf they liked that ended but was able to turn it round, as from my experience its really hard/impossible to re-hook up with a girl once she ends it?

Any comments would be appreciated..

Peace