some girls still have the thought in their heads that its the male that should approach them, and rightly so, so whenever i have been given eye contacti find its best to give her a hollywood type smile and if shes still looking you have to make a move, i would never walk away after a girl is smiling whilst looking at me or looking as if shes just staring, once she checks you out you have to think that shes then given you the access to make a move on her, since finding the pick up lifestyle i have learnt to grow a pair and approach at all costs as thats what sets us apart from the average chodes