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Originally Posted by Zone
someone who has been very shy, closed off from the social world, they dont no what to say,what not to say. You cant just tell somebody like that be confident,be authentic, because he wont be able to use that information in a way that will be helpful.
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Shy people know exactly what to say and what not to say, they just don't allow themselves to be that person in certain situations, i.e. around girls. when they are comfortable, rest assured, they will express themselves. When uncomfortable, they will be stifled and 'run out of things to say'.
Giving them tools like routines, made by themselves or be Mystery will not expand their unhealthy view that they CAN BE THEMSELVES without being judged somehow.