has anybody based themselves on someone who they think is confident, cool and can get any girls they want?

ive been listening to a confidence CD/doing confidence exercises recently and one exercise is imagining someone who u think is confident/cool etc, and then picturing how they stand/talk/act and think of yourself as that person.

i find it a really good exercise but is it changing me into something im not or is it just improving me?

im feeling quite good about myself and my future atm, so id say its improving me but i can easily see how someone can turn themselves into something their not.