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Default 23-04-2010, 10:23 PM

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The end result was an exchange of numbers but since then it looks like she's lost interest because when I suggested a 'dvd' date her reply was 'it would be weird because I don't know you'
Don't worry about this mate, just try to see how you could have done it better. She felt she hadn't spent enough time with you for a DVD date (let's be honest, we all know what this really means) so in future, think about being more...how can I put this politely...subtle in your D2s. Still, I wish half the girls who flake on me were this upfront!

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1st set
me: HI! what's your name
her: *stare at me and turn around*
Haha! I've had this happen to me a few times, it's a sonofabitch isn't it! Don't take it too personally - maybe it was your fault for going in too high-energy or with an instantaneous hint of neediness or self-doubt, maybe they were miserable bitches who don't deserve the company of one as cool as yourself. Either way don't worry about it. It'll happen again, no matter how good you get. One thing I've learned to do is find the humour in the situation and use this to bounce me into an adjacent set:

"I just said hello to this girl and she completely ignored me. Can you believe that shit?!"

It doesn't even matter if they bite, it's just me vibing with people around me. Balls to anyone who doesn't want my precious time. If they can't take a joke, fuck 'em (as the great Tucker Max would say).

Sounds like you made a decent night of it though. For a kick-off, sounds like you ditched the canned stuff early doors which is always a bonus, and were just cool. You had fun and that's what counts. What happened with the chick whose house you went back to? Anything we should know about?


It's just advice, fellas. Do whatever the FUCK you wanna do
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