Hi there A-Train. If you're are out in Swansea sometime, let me know if you fancy going out sarging (I wouldn't call myself a 'pro' mind!).

With regard to your comment about whether girls care if a guy is in great shape or not; that's actually an opinion opener I use, as my mate is concious of his slight beer belly. The responses tend to be 50/50, but to be honest, the more attrative and intelligent girls tend to say that being in good shape isn't that important.

It's unlikely that it's your looks or your physical shape that's holding you back.

Cheers.

Maestro.