I honestly haveto agree with you both !

Whereas i , like K , feel that negging on a girl does lower your own value (not teasing however as that is a completely different thing and i tease ALOT)

I also agree with Sync in that some girls , namely the 9's and 10's are unfortunately ... Up themselves and have placed themselves in a position of power in their own minds . This is where i do sometimes feel that afew negs or 'pebbles' should be thrown their way . More just to show that you are not afraid of this act she puts on and that you are completely unphased by it .