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And re the Spotlight affect and other link, I'll have a butchers.

So here's a question for you. There are many theories about raising Social Proof by being in a group of Women laughing and joking or walking in with two beautiful women, smiling as you walk in to a club, etc. If the Spotlight affect comes into play and no one is looking, all those things don't matter too right?

Or have I missed the point?