Hi Guys

After two home dates this week, i worked something out pretty fast.
If you are having trouble escalating to physical then this works really well.
We had been out, i got her upto my apartment before we went, standard! And we came back and were talking on the couch. I had already been escalating physical touching etc all night.

Ok, so we are on the couch and i told her that i had to go to bed and that she would have to leave.
If you sit on the couch talking all night it doesnt create the same urgency as her leaving does.
Suddenly as she goes to the door there is this immense sexual tension and in her mind she gets the choice , the "act now or lose" thought.
So as we walked towards the door ( On BOTH dates ) it suddenly started getting really physical and we started making out in the hall, then into the bedroom, and then BAM,

I would advise, on the couch for 30 mins, build comfort, use things ike thumb wars to initiate contact, eye contact, slow down your tone and pace her, and then tell her she has to leave. Then Stand up, take her by the hand and walk her to the door.

She will be in your bed in 10 mins max