Hey Buddy, just be careful with statements like this 'Hence, at the moment, there's only one girl who could get me to commit, and I've known her for nearly 3 years' That by you knowing her for this long and/or just being friends with her is helpful to your endeavors and not detrimental. We all know that having a 'soft spot' for a girl we know but haven't fucked can lead to weakness and in some cases the dreaded 'oneitis'.