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Originally Posted by CaptainCharisma
For example, I had to specifically think in order to introduce flirting/compliments, because it's not something that comes naturally to me, but it's something I know I have to do.
Or should that work come beforehand, thinking/rehearsing, so it flows naturally when you're actually in front of a person?
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Obviously if you're thinking atm then like any "skill" with decent practice it should be come more automatic, analagous to learning how to play poker (I was going to say driving, but game has variable returns).
I suppose this' why advice for beginners is often to improve fundamentals and looks, to make it easier to reinforce/learn flirtatious behaviour. That way once you've got the vibe evened out, then that takes over.
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