That sucks. With experience you’ll learn to read situations earlier as they have the same patterns. You’ll be able to tell with pretty good accuracy who is attracted, who isn’t and who is just trying to get free shit.

My advice is, if you aren’t certain make a move.

Actually make a move though. Hanging out then later texting “let’s hang out” is not a move. In this specific situation it is unlikely but I have been in situations where my not making a move has killed her attraction. You can’t do that. You gotta stop doing that, man.

Always make a move if you aren’t sure. Then you’ll have that as a reference experience that will help you to tell the difference in the future. If you feel odd when someone is talking to you, maybe they are lying. If you don’t find out whether they were or not you don’t know if that feeling means you are being lied to or not. Same with attraction.


Peace,

kowalski