Yeah I agree entirely with that Nova, that was mainly the point I was driving at, it's much more exciting to keep that element of mystery and intrigue at the begining of a relationship rather than to bare all too soon. I wasn't suggesting anyone be ashamed of compromising pictures or material on your facebook, on the contrary I'm all for being unashamed however some girls (often the most shallow) may take a second view of you if the life you reveal on your facebook does not live up to their 'ideal'.