No, the retarded thing is you communicating like that. They are your words, they are your thoughts. Pick them better. If you speak like that, you think like that. Which you clearly do, because that is the whole thrust of this thread. It is all about the problem with English girls when it comes to one night stands or being fuck buddies etc.

Well that problem doesn’t exist... and we all personally know it doesn’t exist from our personal experiences and it statistically can be demonstrated not to exist too (check out the yougov survey for example in which being unfaithful, sex in public and one night stands are all higher for uk than Italy).

So, stop with all this nonsense.

The problem is you.

And that’s a good thing because you have more control over you than you have over the external world and especially those parts of the external world that are other people.

You took a few shitty experiences caused by you, turned them into a huge assumption about “English girls“ (like that is even a useful categorisation) and, apparently, completely modified your behaviour to create a feedback loop that your negative and false theory can gorge itself upon.


As for the date: if you want to fuck and you are being authentic you’d be trying to fuck. If you we’re trying to fuck there be no question of whether there was a spark or not because she would have either reciprocated or rejected you. And it wouldn’t have been a nice couple of hours, it would have either gone well or gone badly. And there’s no way she’d be talking about being your girlfriend or not and she wouldn’t dare to suggest you don’t date other girls... whilst also not actually dating her.

But sure, just reply that you don’t understand what I’m saying again. Stay dumb, kiddo.


Peace,

kowalski