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So why meet this girl?
I have a kid so I am after serious stuff
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The whole thread is about this:
I am used to be honest about my intentions but it seems not to work since I'm here. My problem is that all the girls are after serious stuff here so I have been advised to take them less seriously and that's the only reason why I was messaging this girl.
I am trying the best I can to take them less seriously and this thing goes against my ethics at all. I'm doing it cause I understand I need to adapt and I have been advised so. So don't call me inauthentic cause this is actually the reason why I started the thread and you have to put what I say into context
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And if you were being authentic none of this could have happened:
-...it was... nice... I asked to meet again. She said she wasn't sure there was a spark or whether she wanted to be my girlfriend... and if...I was OK not to date other women we could have met again.
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Honestly I don't understand what you mean there.