It is nice to be quoted. Also, re the above I believe it was I who said (like literally a page ago):
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The key thing throughout that entire interaction is that you're incongruent and you don't have good social acuity. Filming yourself doing day game is a bad way to solve that, it just won't help.
....daygame is too weird of a social situation to be able to do that. You need to learn to socialise with people in general and to handle less intense social interactions. Try going to social events or meetups. There you can meet people in a friendly, low-pressure way and work on your acuity.
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oh, and
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The point of you getting a job or getting a social life is for 2 reasons:
1. It's a good and enjoyable thing to have in and of itself
2. Like I said before, it will help you learn how to talk to people without being weird. It wasnt to get laid just by getting a job and a social circle. Unemployed people with bad lives can get girls, but they don't have the lack of social skills you do. And by the way, having friends isn't a shit load of work you have to go through, you should want to have that anyway. I mean damn
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So while there are obvious benefits to having a life, the point here is that it's a good way for you to figure out how to actually talk to people and be normal. That seems to be everyone's underlying message here. So if you said:
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it seems to me that without BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS it is impossible to meet women at all.
My whole early adulthood and 20s I never had any kind of BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS
Then I saw approaching videos on YouTube and thought from them that the only reason I'd never met women was because I didn't approach them boldly in the street.
But according to you guys, all along it was because I didn't have BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS
No matter what you do, without BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS it is impossible to meet women, even if you put the leg work in.
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You'd have no argument here.