Yeah agreed Nova - whilst it is important to understand the basics Casanova, don't get to the point where you are so busy thinking of how to stand, what to say, which way to face etc that you can't relax and be the cool, interesting guy you are and that she will kick herself is she doesn't get your number! Get into a good 'state' and then be natural, and I think you'll see some improvement, even if it takes a little time. Negging is okay as Kowalski says if needed in the situation, but again don't go into the set thinking 'I've got to neg her' - if the chance comes up in the conversation to be cheeky then go for it.

Once you have confidence in your ability to nail it and get numbers you will relax more and will start actually getting those numbers. Also it is good tyou have a Wing that can tell you things like voice tone..things like that can be worked on if needed too. Have fun out there Brother.