A woman surrenders to her desire to buy an expensive garment. Is the shopkeep forcing her? No. Just tempting her. I do the same with words. She always, I repeat, ALWAYS, has a choice. I would argue that when a man has a knife to her throat, she still has a choice to resist, but she values her life so she doesn't. There's a difference.

I suspect Double O can give a more informed answer on rape than I can as he is a psychologist, I'm just a hypnotist. I focus on changing behavior more than understanding it. He does both, which is why he is better than me. I admit that.
I should tell you, I was in jail once. I spent a significant amount of time. There I met murderers, burglers, drunk drivers, thieves, and rapists. I'm a curious fucker, and all you really talk about in the joint is what you did to end up there (I violated a judge's order, if you must know). I will tell you, every single rapist told me, it was more about the violence and power than the sex. In fact, one was a serial rapist (this is when, due to overcrowding, I was housed in the maximum security unit. a truly fucked up place) and he told me he often didn't even acheive orgasm. Now tell me it's about getting laid.

I take nothing personally. We are a fraternity here for the betterment of each other.