They're kinda different man. I'm talking about expressing your feelings and desires. Tell a girl what you want and what you like rather than play games and pussy about. I'm not suggesting you never lie but I don't agree with 'acting' like someone else to attract women. What'd be the point?
To a degree I think you need to 'fake it' a bit, as in you need to think of yourself as the coolest muthafucker in existance and sadly everyone except me has to fake that Im joking, obviously Clint Eastwood is the coolest.