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Originally Posted by Mycroft
I think there is something in how you talk about it and what exactly you talk about. With traveling, as an example, I think it is more engaging to talk about the people you met and what they did, woman love gossip - rather than a list of the places you've been.
I'm not explaining this too well and its not even a fully formed theory in my head. Anyone understand what I mean?
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I kind of do.
Truth be told, Im a terrible conversationalist with women.
They just love to talk about shit all the time. But I dont think a man should.
Im playing with something that is working for me.
With this girl Im with at the moment, i actually leave all the speaking to her and just listen, and say oh right, I see, in my deep sexy voice and smile at her. She loves it.
When I do open my mouth to talk its worth the wait and its confident, positive, funny, with good smooth body language, invading her personal space to show dominance etc and she loves it.
You're right its not about what you say or what responses you give, a lot of it is about the delivery.
Improv has helped me loads with this, controlling my frame 24/7.
Ross Jeffries and NLP also have a lot to say about this too... Altho everyone knows he's evil right..?
