Yeah that's exactly my point. The superego (Freud's term for the unconscious part of the mind which passes judgement onto our actions) seems to be fucking with their heads and making them feel bad or guilty for wanting to have sex with a guy they've just met, which is ludacris if you think about it cos it's a natural instinct for people to feel this way. I'm not saying that everyone should have sex with each other just because they get the urge, but there really shouldn't be so much tension surrounding it. We should be able to express our interests freely without being labelled a slut, or a player or whatever.