How true this is! And how much it says about our culture and how it's developed? One of the greatest pleasures of life has managed to become something that is frowned upon. For example, where did the phrase 'being naughty come from' (used in a sexual context). It almost suggests that your'e doing something you shouldn't. Or when a girl tells you 'your'e being bad', as if your'e going against some kind of rules or something. I actually love it when a girl says this to me, but it does kind of make me think that there's this subconscious belief, particularly among women, that sex is actually quite dirty, and taboo even.