Why do you want her chasing you no.fx? You need to get yourself out there and get more options. You don;t have to cut all ties with this girl as such, sureenjoy the sexual moments if you like. Just don't let it fill your head up with just her. Like Jaz says she's having her cake and eating the validation in spades. It's kind of value sapping and does you NO favours.

Your options are not limited to one girl no.fx... or at least make sure they are not from here on in! There's thousands of amazing girls out there waiting for you! Just step out and start talking to some.