thanks for advice so far guys! I am also coming to the realisation that uni girls are completely weird and not an accurate reflection of what girls are really like. However with this girls, I dont want her as a gf, for the very reasons that you have outlined jaz. I am only wanting a bit of fun with her, and tbh that is what I believe she wants from me, a very casual relationship. However in this casual relationship, I want her to do some of the chasing and also wont it. Maybe I should tell her my that I dont want anything from this and its just a casual relationship?

or is what you guys are suggesting....to ditch her and cut all strings?

Peace