Great post blanca and interesting stuff from you too shark. However im not sure what the "Ring routine" or the "animal instincts" routine is! Would really appreciate it if you could explain them or throw a link my way so i can have a butch at them.

That aside, i too have this problem. I sometimes think to myself "why is this girl not opening up after ive opened her" and clearly the answer is ive not done enough to open up or build connection with her. Yes it shows balls and confidence approaching a girl but you learn nothing about each other tbh and more is needed if your to get her to be genuinely intruiged about you.