Originally Posted by tony77

Hey man, good stuff otherwise! I cannot justify going out, spending money on travel fare if i'm not going to approach. If I'm not in state, i will warm up by chatting to shop assistants, read some funny jokes online and just smiling. Smiling and laughter have a positive psychological effect and can work almost immediately.

I also find that if I'm horny and I see a hot girl I feel less hesitant. But in this moment when you are just work on your observation skills, make notes, write stuff down that you could use in the future.!

In the supermarket, as per my reply, please give situational a go, use some humour, get come conversation going then make a statement of intent. Not saying Direct won't work but many women suffer from social anxiety so direct could spook them. But if you do go direct make sure you show some empathy "I realise you're doing your shopping, and this may sound a little forward but I thought you looked really attractive and had to come and say hi" then follow up with some assumptions. "You look like you're really glad you've just finished work, probably had a lot of meetings and posting messages on facebook" lol