This is a discussion, not a bashing Tw1sted. Telling someone to set their sights lower is not acceptable advice. Saying a guy is too ugly for a pretty girl is a nonsense. This is all very defeatist for guys who are trying to push the boundaries of modern society's default position, and accepting what popular culture dictates to us through it's agressive 'quick fix' marketing.

We get sold the handsome man as 'the norm' that we should all live up to if we are to get the girl, when in practice we all follow the man with the strongest sense of belief and reality. We also get sold the 'new woman' who has power. Does she really want this position, or does she want the man to be THE MAN? Unfortunately too many men, my friends included sell out to this bullsh*t and let girls control their lives as they simply do not believe they can do any better. All because they're standards are set so low.